Find Similarities Beneath the Differences (from Part One)
True intercultural understanding involves a process that is like a conversation. It is based on give and take, mutual respect, and a growing recognition that even though you and the other person are different, you actually may have a lot in common.
At first, it will be hard to find common ground, and you may find yourself grasping at straws, such as making a lighthearted remark about the fact that the two of you are both wearing jackets that have the same color. However, as you become acquainted with the diverse characteristics of the other person's culture, you may begin to notice that there are similarities beneath the apparent differences.
For example, a performance of traditional music may involve instruments that are unknown to you, and perhaps a stage setting that is unlike any you've ever seen. However, the local culture will almost surely have a way to express appreciation for the artist afterwards, even if the audience never claps their hands.
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